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Positivity vs Negativity: The winning factors

Positivity vs Negativity: The winning factorsTo stay positive is sometimes tagged as unrealistic, or overvalued.

There are some factors to consider.

When at positive thinking, you are more prone to be constructive.

When at negative thinking, you are more prone to be destructive.

Facing bad situations makes difficult to keep positive.

Anger, frustration, pain, fear, you name it, can be feelings provoked by the bad situation, and are able to sum us in a loop of the negativity of which is quite difficult to get out.

To keep feeding these feelings will only sink us more in the hole, obsessing us.

If you keep positive facing a truly bad situation, although you might be unable to find a logical reason, will put your unconscious on “constructive mode”

Remember: “Only in the unconscious can be carried out complex cognitive processes” (Dr. John Bargh, Yale´s University Psychologist)

So trying to keep positive will enable your unconscious to find a way to go on or find a solution, while if you don’t put away negativism, your mental garbage, your unconscious will find more ways to keep you down.

It is important not to get contaminated with negativism, and at the same time, it is so common, and we have so much “realistic” opinions around, that we can be tainted with it without even noticing it.

Winning the fight against negativism.

Take a real choice on being positive, because that’s what it is: A choice.

Reality is not what it is. It is what it means to you. (AKA Neuro-Linguistic Programming).

Fuel that feeds negativism is a short term resource, as affects the inner space in a destructive way, and makes you weak.

Fuel that feeds positivism is a long lasting resource, as you can always go back to it and get reinforced.

When facing negativism with positivism, you will always win, with the following possible endings:

-The negative person chuckles and goes away. Problem solved

-The negative person gets convinced to change his/her mind and turns an allied (the optimum result). Problem solved.

-The negative person keeps negative and even worse. With these people, you better avoid any contact, for misfortune sticks like glue.

Corollary 1: If so, keep positive much harder, so the negative person will let you in peace, mumbling you are insane. Problem solved.

Corollary 2: You can always smile from your peaceful position. He/she is only concerned about his/her own interest. Will only listen to talk back. Sooner or later he/she will crash alone. Problem solved

Corollary 3: “You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks” (Winston Churchill)

Make of your life a Paradise

There is a collateral benefit of being positive.

Think about the following:

If you are to select someone for your company, added to professional skills..

would you not choose someone cheerful, enthusiastic, tolerant, good worker, dynamic, good communicator, with joy for life?

If you are to select someone for your life, added to having common interests..

would you not choose someone cheerful, enthusiastic, tolerant, good worker, dynamic, good communicator, with joy for life? 

Positivity vs Negativity: The winning factorsIf you would select such a person, it is logical to think that the rest of the world would do the same.

So it is obvious that when you are choosing your attitude,

you are choosing your fate accordingly. 

You attract to your life and are attracted by people similar to you.

Choosing your attitude you are choosing your environment too.


Whenever bad things will happen in your life, learn from it, take profit of it, and make the needful changes.

This way you will master your entire life.

The people just complaining about having bad luck are victims,

and acting as a victim, no one is able to get it changed.

“You can always be happy, if you are able to be happy with anything” said Confucius.

Above all, if the way seems to be tricky, maybe is simply because you are in the right way.

When we try to be better than we are, our surroundings will be better too.

You are free to choose, and to take decisions, even if you are the only one who understands them.

Take your decisions with courage, generosity and a little of madness.

We will only understand life if we stop looking for explanations.

To learn means to enter in an unknown world, where the most simple things use to be the most extraordinary.

Be ready to change, to challenge yourself.

Don’t be afraid of challenges. Keep going on and on.

Remember that without faith, a battle can be lost even if it seemed it was won.

Make sure to always remember what you want, and what you don’t.

And start again.

The secret resides on not being afraid to be wrong, and to know that it is a must to be humble to learn.

Be patient to wait for the exact moment, and congratulate for your achievements.

And if this was not enough, analyze the causes, and try again with even more strength.

The world is the hand of those who are brave enough to dream and take the risk to live their own dreams.

To see more about it in a "graphic way" go to : http://www.slideshare.net/bicefablog/not-in-the-mood


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David Navarro López

David Navarro López

vor 5 Jahren #15

#22
Coming from you, that is an outstanding comment. Sadly enough, many of my coworkers are never happy. They spend their lifes just complaining. If its cold, is damned cold. If sunny, oh is too hot. You name it. They always find a "reason" to complain. This is why i wrote the presentation mentioned at the end of the buzz, because they always find something to complain about, to a point that it is a real sickness, the sickness of our time. We are not happy with ourselves, and tend to point the rest of the world as the guilty of our own unhappiness, while being happy will never start from outside to inside.

David Navarro López

David Navarro López

vor 5 Jahren #14

#12
thank you for your kind words Irene, I am happy you liked it. Sometimes the inner space happens to be not a such a pleasant place, if you have failed in many things, knowing that you are most responsible of it. Self regret can be a never ending torture. As part of going out of the cocoon , like Fatima says, there is a indispensable component. The hability to forgive yourself without being condescendent with yourself, with honesty. Then, you are able to recon what was wrong, you make the necessary changes, and start again.

David Navarro López

David Navarro López

vor 5 Jahren #13

#18
the payback ratio uses to be 1:3 . You give 1 and life gives you 3 in return. The question resides on the fact that life has "its own way to correspond", and one needs to be open minded and have a "nude eye" to see it.

Franci 🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador

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Franci 🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador

What an enlightening article. There is a lot to take away from this. I love the quote by Confucius “You can always be happy, if you are able to be happy with anything” and I also love this line "The secret resides on not being afraid to be wrong, and to know that it is a must to be humble to learn." I consider this a 5 star read!

David Navarro López

David Navarro López

vor 5 Jahren #10

#15
normally i credit the author, when the name is available. Not in this case, sorry

Nick Mlatchkov

Nick Mlatchkov

vor 5 Jahren #9

Who's the artist of the 1st pic?

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

vor 5 Jahren #8

#12
Irene Hackett did you know your writing is like a healing balm . Non- resistance comes with the practice in time as we are all victims of suffering at some point in our life. Love what you said about inner space. There is no help for you outside of yourself; you are the creator of the universe.orm you have built a cocoon around yourself…. Burst your own cocoon and come out aw the beautiful butterfly, as the free soul. Then alone you will see Truth - SwamiVivekanda

David Navarro López

David Navarro López

vor 5 Jahren #7

#10
Thank you for you nice words. In fact, they have been the trigger for me to think about something which i had a little blurry in miy mind, and now has become quite clear. Not telling you what right now. In about 8 hours from now i am writing a buzz about it. Be blessed

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

vor 5 Jahren #6

Talk about synchronicity as yesterday during my walk I was thinking about life , mistakes and choices and this buzz kind of throws it all at me . Thank you David Navarro L\u00f3pez These are my key takeaways “You can always be happy, if you are able to be happy with anything” Confucius. You are free to choose, and to take decisions, even if you are the only one who understands them. The secret resides on not being afraid to be wrong, and to know that it is a must to be humble to learn.

David Navarro López

David Navarro López

vor 5 Jahren #5

Ali Anani Wanted to share an experience of today, concerning to the buzz. When it is very hot, like today, our boss uses to send a young apprentice to buy Ice Cream for each worker, and then this boy goes around distributing them with an isolating bag. Quite everybody has no much respect for this boy, as he does not-so-relevant tasks. But I always take him on consideration, try to teach him, and treat him well. Today, he came to me and as usual, said: Choose one, it is from the boss. But lowering his voice said: Search on the bottom of the bag. There are two of Mango and Maracuyá, I know they are your favorite. Take them both and say nothing. So yes, I can say that if you are positive, and distribute positive things, your life can become a paradise.

David Navarro López

David Navarro López

vor 5 Jahren #4

#2
The explanation is quite simple. If you have been through hell and heaven, as you know I have been, then you learn. And if you have such an example of what a valuable person is, like you are my friend​, then you learn even more.

David Navarro López

David Navarro López

vor 5 Jahren #3

#4
You are very kind to share, dear Aurorasa. If you look at the slideshare preentation, at the end you will find the sources I used. There is as well a German version, which​ had almost 17000 views. http://www.slideshare.net/bicefablog/kein-bock

David Navarro López

David Navarro López

vor 5 Jahren #2

#1
Thank you Aurorasa, you are a fast reader. It took me 15 years to learn the lesson and 2 months to put together the text. And I consider myself lucky, as many people​ will misuse his entire life not knowing what is all about.This is why I published. Maybe is useful for someone.

Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee

So it is obvious that when you are choosing your attitude, you are choosing your fate accordingly. You attract to your life and are attracted by people similar to you. Choosing your attitude you are choosing your environment too. These quotes from your great buzz is richly with wisdom. Love it. What could I add? These gems need to explanation. They express reality and you David Navarro L\u00f3pez is the father of logic. Bravo

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