Where do we go from here?
To all those who have grown their children, when they finally start their own lives, it uses to come to this question. Growing a child or more it’s a lifetime hard work which can lead us to a huge emptiness once is done, if we forget some undeniable truths:
-Children do not belong to us, though we have the responsibility to help them finding their own way, to protect them.
-We cannot live our children’s lives, nor can’t they live ours.
-We cannot put aside our own individuality or our life with our wife/husband.
We cannot wait until they are gone to going on building our own life, ourselves.
I found very appropriate the lyrics of this Alan Parsons song:
"Games People Play"
Where do we go from here now that all other children are growin' up
And how do we spend our lives if there's no-one to lend us a hand
I don't want to live here no more,
I don't want to stay
Ain't gonna spend the rest of my life,
Quietly fading away
Games people play,
You take it or you leave it
Things that they say,
Honor Brite
If I promise you the Moon and the Stars,
Would you believe it
Games people play in the middle of the night
Where do we go from here now that all of the children have grown up
And how do we spend our time knowin' nobody gives us a damn”
Written by Alan Parsons, Eric Woolfson • Copyright © Universal Music Publishing Group
Alan Parsons Project Games People Play With Lyrics HD
It is us who need to figure out how we are going to spend our lives after being parents.
Because this is the most important last lesson we can give our children.
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Kommentare
David Navarro López
vor 6 Jahren #17
happy to see you here
Harvey Lloyd
vor 7 Jahren #16
Yes it is painful to watch. Wisdom tells us when we should speak but sometimes fear instigates conversations. Thanks for your kind words. I don't believe we ever cease to be parents. We phase into a advisory mode.
David Navarro López
vor 7 Jahren #15
Isn't it sad when you see them they are going to be in trouble due to their own fault, and you must hold back? To let them learn from their own mistakes? I find this the worst part, as before they get hurt, I already can feel in advance the pain they are inevitably going to feel...but one has tightened hands and has to even silence the "told you so's" and much more. I can tell you are a loving father.
Harvey Lloyd
vor 7 Jahren #14
David Navarro López
vor 7 Jahren #13
"Sometimes we get so caught up in raising our children that we lose our individuality." I agree we are not allowed to do that, as we could deliver the wrong message to our children. I haven't the pleasure to have grandchildren yet, but I hope I will
David Navarro López
vor 7 Jahren #12
As long as your wife gets on with it, I can tell you, these can be you real "golden years", with the wisdom of experience and still the power to do things.... Did you have a look at another post related to it? https://www.bebee.com/producer/@david-navarro-lopez/get-started-adding-life-to-years I am sure you will enjoy it too
David Navarro López
vor 7 Jahren #11
Precisely this is why I wrote the buzz, because I see parents so blindly engaged on being good parents, that they forget about themselves. I do love Alan Parsons too
Ali Anani
vor 7 Jahren #10
Yes, our grandchildren are our pleasure and memories. They are not our direct responsibility (or, we pretend it is not). yes, I agree with you Lisa \ud83d\udc1d Gallagher
Lisa Gallagher
vor 7 Jahren #9
Grandchildren add another layer to our lives and if we remember we are the grandparents (here to enjoy, not raise kids anymore) the time is so precious and the kids seem to have more innocence than I was able to appreciate while raising my kids if that makes sense?
Lisa Gallagher
vor 7 Jahren #8
Ali Anani
vor 7 Jahren #7
I always enjoy your thoughts and "adding life to years". Yes, the exchange of comments with you always adds "life to my years".
Mamen 🐝 Delgado
vor 7 Jahren #6
David Navarro López
vor 7 Jahren #5
Yes dear Ali, this is one of the reasons why I did write this post and another you have already seen, https://www.bebee.com/producer/@david-navarro-lopez/get-started-adding-life-to-years
David Navarro López
vor 7 Jahren #4
Vincent, this is precisely what I did. When my daughter married, then I looked for a job abroad, and moved here to Germany, working in my passion, packaging machinery. And it is one of the best things I ever did. My colleagues use to ask why am I so happy while working, and I use to answer...I am not working anymore, I am retired, and developing my hobby...only that I get very well paid for it (LOL)
Ali Anani
vor 7 Jahren #3
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
vor 7 Jahren #2
David Navarro López
vor 7 Jahren #1